at the ready

Support comes in all shapes and sizes.. and species. Martha and Barry have the incredible blessing of, not only sharing in the steps of these final stages of life, they are living out those final weeks, days, and moments on their daughter's ranch. Surrounding the home are the chickens, horses, donkey and llama living their peaceful existence without the worry of time or attachment. The many acres of open prairie envelopes this quiet haven; the many concerns of the greater world sink into the distant clouds.

Illustrations © Barbara J Holzapfel

The room Martha and Barry spend most of their time now, has become the centre of everyones focus. The questions come in and out all day: glass of water, dad? - morning pills, mom? - time for oxygen, dad? - are you warm enough, mom? While, on the sidelines, there awaits a gentle presence, ever at the ready to support.